Wednesday 25 May 2016

Taking "No" For An Answer

“He/she won’t take no for an answer” is something many of us will have heard said of those whom we know (and may even like).

Sometimes it’s said with admiration to describe someone who keeps going until they get what they want.  At others, though, it means someone who simply won't understand that they’re being a nuisance…

Sales staff need a thick skin to be able to handle rejection, otherwise no sales.  For them, the inability to “take no for an answer” can be the difference between success and failure for their business.  Only a certain type of personality can take rejection and still try again and again until they succeed.

There are two sides to this.  One is the understanding that perhaps your pitch wasn’t right, that you failed to spot that vital clue, missed that vital need or stressed the wrong thing.  Good sales people refine their art and generally end up with more successes than defeats. 

The other is the annoying refusal to understand that, however good your product or service (in your eyes), the client doesn't want/can’t afford/doesn't need it.  In this situation, it’s best to cut your losses and look for more rewarding prospects.  This time, it didn’t work out.  Who knows, maybe six months down the line, things will have changed in your favour?

The ability to understand when to “back off and regroup” is just as important to good sales people as the ability to push for the close.  By backing off, you preserve the client’s goodwill and trust.  By continually pestering them, you may end up with a sale “just to get rid of you”, but you’ll find future opportunities will vanish after that.

What’s the best thing to do?  I’ve found that being sensitive and looking for signals (both “active” and “passive”) are the best clue.  Clients give away as much by not acting as by acting.

Competition is increasing, customer loyalty is more fleeting.  “Lose the battle, win the war” may be the most appropriate strategy here…


I have spent more than half my life delivering change in different world markets from the most developed to “emerging” economies. With more than 20 years in international financial services around the world  running different operations and lending businesses, I started my own Consultancy to offer solutions for improving performance, productivity and risk management.  I work with individuals, small businesses, charities, quoted companies and academic institutions across the world. An international speaker, trainer, author and fund-raiser, I can be contacted by email . My website provides a full picture of my portfolio of services.  For strategic questions that you should be asking yourself, follow me at @wkm610.

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